FAQ's
What is the dress code?
Our wedding will be black tie. Women are encouraged to wear floor-length gowns or formal cocktail dresses, and men are encouraged to wear tuxedos complete with a cummerbund or vest.
Color Swatches
What are the wedding colors?
We are incorporating elements of Día de los Muertos into our wedding and envision a colorful, joy-filled celebration with rich deep jewel tones such as emerald, sapphire, ruby and amethyst, along with earthy browns, marigold tones and classic black. If you’d like, you’re welcome to weave these colors into your look, but most importantly, wear whatever makes you feel your best.

Here are some examples:
Couple Outfit
Where should we stay?
Please refer to our travel page for room blocks and more info on the area.
Is transportation provided?
Yes, transportation will be provided between Skyview and our venue in the evening. Everything else in Los Alamos is walkable.
What time should we arrive?
Please plan to arrive at the venue at 3:30 pm to get settled before the ceremony begins promptly at 4:00 pm.
Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony will take place outdoors in the garden, followed by an indoor cocktail hour. The reception will be held outdoors in the courtyard, with the afterparty in the speakeasy-style saloon on the property. All events will be at 1880 Union Hotel. Please note you may need to walk on grass when moving between the courtyard and the lobby, so plan your footwear accordingly.
What will the weather be like?
November evenings in Los Alamos can be crisp, with daytime highs in the 60/70s and nighttime lows in the 40s. We recommend bringing a wrap or coat for after sunset, there will be space heaters for the outdoor areas.
Can I bring a plus-one?
Guests whose invitations are addressed solely to them are welcome to bring a guest, should they wish.
Are kids welcome?
No.
Is there a gift registry?
Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for, and we feel so fortunate to celebrate with you. If you wish to still give a gift, we have created a honeymoon fund to help us make the most of our upcoming trip to Africa.
Will there be a welcome party or other weekend events?
Yes! The night before the wedding (October 31), we’re hosting a Halloween party next door at The Maker’s Son. Costumes required! Please refer to our schedule for details on this and other weekend events.
What if I RSVP late?
We kindly ask that all RSVPs be submitted by October 1st so we can finalize seating, catering, and other details. If your response comes in after the deadline, we’ll do our best to accommodate you.
What if I do not RSVP at all?
The police will show up at your door and arrest you.
What’s the parking situation?
There is street parking in Los Alamos as well as parking near the venue, however if you are staying in the town of Los Alamos, everything is walkable. Ubers may be difficult late at night in a small town so we encourage our guests to stay in Los Alamos if they can.
Will there be vegan/vegetarian/gluten-free/allergy-safe options?
Yes, please let us know your dietary restrictions when you RSVP so we can accommodate you.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that you keep phones away during the ceremony so you can be fully present, our photographer will capture everything!
What time does the evening end?
The reception will wrap up around 10:30, but the after party will keep going in the Saloon until 2am.
Will there be dancing?
I would hope so!
What are some things to do in the area?
Recommendations for Los Alamos can be found at the bottom of our details page.
Traditional Día de los Muertos ofrenda with marigolds, candles, and photographs
Day of the Dead

Día de los Muertos

Día de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead, is a beautiful Mexican tradition that honors and celebrates the lives of loved ones who have passed. It is believed that on this night the veil between worlds grows thin, allowing the spirits of loved ones to return and join us once more.

As part of our celebration, we will have an ofrenda adorned with photographs, mementos, and favorite foods to guide them home and surround them with the things they love.

All guests are welcome to add something in honor of a loved one so that their spirit may celebrate with us.

Offering ideas:

  • A copy of a photograph
  • A small keepsake or memento
  • A favorite treat or drink they loved in life
  • Any other token of love and remembrance that feels meaningful to you

Any items you would like returned can be collected after the wedding or the following morning, and we will keep them safe for you.

About Los Alamos

Los Alamos is a small, one-street town in Santa Barbara wine country with Old West and rancho roots. Founded in 1876 as a stagecoach stop, it still has its historic false-front buildings from the frontier days. The surrounding hills were once part of Spanish land grants, and local lore ties the area to the legend of Zorro, inspired by real-life outlaw Joaquín Murrieta (who happens to be one of Brittany’s ancestors). Today, those old buildings are home to great restaurants, wine bars, and antique shops, giving the town a mix of history and laid-back charm.

Vogue

Los Alamos, California Is the Culinary Destination to Know

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Exploring Los Alamos, CA

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  • Bell’s

    Michelin-starred, French bistro-style dining

    406 Bell St

  • Bodega

    Bodega is a laid-back spot for organic and biodynamic wines, with picnic tables, hammocks, and a cozy fire pit.

    273 Bell St

  • Pico

    Seasonal California cuisine in a charming setting

    458 Bell St

  • Bob’s Well Bread

    Great for baked goods, sandwiches, and coffee.

    550 Bell St

  • Sisters Gifts and Home

    Charming boutique with thoughtful gifts, cards, and home accents.

    349 Bell St #243

  • Campover

    Cozy spot for curated goods with a laid-back Los Alamos vibe.

    380 Waite St